Building Stronger Family Connections: The Power of Family Meetings

Building Stronger Family Connections: The Power of Family Meetings

In the realm of financial planning, family meetings play a pivotal role in maintaining open communication, fostering unity, and working towards a smooth transition of assets and values across generations. These gatherings provide a platform for discussing financial matters, sharing aspirations, and aligning family members’ visions. In this blog post, we will delve into the key elements of running a successful family meeting and offer practical advice for strengthening family bonds that secure a lasting legacy.

Establish Clear Objectives and Agenda

Before organizing a family meeting, define your objectives clearly. What specific topics do you want to address? Are there any immediate financial decisions or concerns that need attention? Establishing a well-structured agenda helps ensure that time is utilized efficiently and that all key matters are covered. Some common agenda items include wealth transfer strategies, investment decisions, philanthropic initiatives, and family governance issues.  Asking for input on the agenda items from the individuals included in the family meeting can provide new insight and may lead to a more engaging discussion.

Foster Open Communication

Effective communication lies at the heart of successful family meetings. Encourage an environment where every family member feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and concerns. Establish ground rules that emphasize active listening, respect, and inclusivity. Allocate time for each member to share their perspective and encourage open dialogue that allows for differing opinions. Transparent and honest communication builds trust and strengthens family relationships.

Engage Professional Advisors

Inviting professional advisors, such as a family facilitator can add significant value to family meetings by bringing structure, neutrality, and expertise in communication and conflict resolution. A facilitator helps create a clear and concise agenda for the family meeting. They will encourage open and respectful communication among family members.  They equip family members with tools to improve their communication and relationships beyond the family meeting.  A facilitator helps the family make decisions by clarifying options, identifying potential consequences, and guiding the group towards a consensus.  After the family meeting, a facilitator may assist in establishing action plans and follow-up processes. They help hold family members accountable for their commitments and provide ongoing support as needed.

Introducing other professional advisors, such as financial planners, lawyers, and accountants, to family meetings can provide valuable expertise and guidance on an as needed basis as well.

Educate and Empower Future Generations

Family meetings present a unique opportunity to educate younger family members about financial responsibility, wealth preservation, and philanthropy. Encourage active participation from the younger generation by assigning them roles and responsibilities within the family governance structure. Consider hosting educational workshops, guest speaker sessions, or mentorship programs to develop their financial literacy and nurture their potential as future stewards of the family’s wealth.

Create and Document a Family Governance Structure

A well-defined family governance structure can provide a framework for decision-making, conflict resolution, and wealth preservation. Establishing family policies, protocols, and a family constitution helps ensure continuity and provides guidelines for future generations. Determine roles and responsibilities for family members, establish rules for wealth distribution, and outline the family’s mission, values, and vision. Regularly review and update the governance structure to adapt to changing circumstances and the evolving needs of the family.

Plan for Philanthropy and Legacy

Wealthy families often have a strong desire to contribute to society through philanthropic endeavors. Encourage discussions on charitable giving and involve family members in philanthropic initiatives. Consider establishing a family foundation or donor-advised fund and involve family members in decision-making regarding charitable causes and grants. Documenting the family’s philanthropic legacy can inspire future generations and strengthen family ties through shared values.


Running a successful family meeting that engages each generation of the family requires careful planning, open communication, and a focus on long-term goals. By establishing clear objectives, fostering transparent dialogue, engaging professional advisors, empowering future generations, creating a family governance structure, and embracing philanthropy, families can build a strong foundation for preserving their legacies. Family meetings serve as a platform for nurturing family unity, transferring knowledge and wealth, and laying the groundwork for a prosperous and harmonious future.

Take the first step today by scheduling a family meeting or engaging with a qualified professional. Your efforts to help preserve your family’s wealth will also strengthen family bonds, nurture shared values, and create a lasting impact on the world around you.

Remember, building bridges and preserving legacies require active participation and commitment from each family member. Embrace the opportunity to come together, share insights, and shape the future of your family. By doing so, you will lay the foundation for a united, prosperous, and impactful family for generations to come.

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Joe Palmieri, CFA® is the Family Office Services Managing Director, leading Waldron in providing services that traditionally fall out of the realm of planning and investments.

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